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Does
the front door always land in the Career Gua?
No, you can
enter the home or office in one of three guas: Skills and Knowledge,
Career and Life Path, or Helpful People and Travel. It depends on
if your front door is to the left, in the center, or on the right-hand
side of the front facade of the home. But, in the style of feng
shui that I practice, it will always be one of those three.
For example,
if your door is pushed all the way over to the left of the house
because, say, the garage is taking up the right side of the whole
house, then you'd be entering in the skills and knowledge gua.
What if
I can't figure out how the bagua lays over my whole house because
it goes in so many directions and is such a weird shape?
Either have
a feng shui practitioner come out and figure it out for you or really
pump up each room. And how you do that is you lay the bagua over
each room by aligning the skills and knowledge, career, helpful
people side of the bagua with the wall that the door is on and go
from there. Add enhancements and balance the elements in that particular
room, and then go on to the next room. If you have each room super
pumped up you'll be less affected by the home not being totally
feng shuied. Although it is best to have the home balanced as a
whole, this is by far the next best thing.
I share
an apartment with other individuals. Can I just feng shui my bedroom
and make things happen?
Yes. Each
room can have the bagua overlaid upon it. If that is the part of
the living domain that you can control, then do it up and "make
things happen!"
Do garages
count?
If the garage,
or any portion of it, is behind the plane of the wall where the
front door is located, then that part of the garage is inside the
bagua and you count it as part of the energy field of the home.
If the whole garage is sticking out in front of the wall that the
front door is on, then I usually don't feel it is a part of the
home's bagua...but don't throw all your junk out there just yet?
It is a part of the bagua of your lot - so keep it clean too!
My garage
makes up one whole side of my house. Does that mean three whole
guas are in the garage?
Depending on
how big your home is in proportion to the garage, you very well
may have three guas in the garage. In this case, I'd make sure that
garage is a pleasant, happy and uncluttered! I'd also probably make
sure those three guas are sufficiently pumped up in the other rooms
of the house. (See above)
Do I have
to put things in the exact corner to have them work?
No, as long
as it is somewhere within that gua. When I say, for example, "the
prosperity corner," I am referring to the whole gua (this one just
happens to have a corner associated with it.). When you overlay
the bagua on to your home, think of it as if you were drawing a
big tic-tac-toe board over your home so that there are nine squares.
If you know which square is which gua, then you can place an enhancement
anywhere within that square for upgraded feng shui.
What if
my rooms inside my home don't line up with the guas?
Rooms don't
have to line up. You can have a situation where half of one room
is in one gua and the other half is in another gua. Having walls
cut through guas is common. Its how you enhance that gua that is
important. And if you are confused by this, remember, you can strengthen
your feng shui by making sure each room is properly feng shuied.
Does burgundy
count as "red?"
Yes, anything
in the red family counts, but take a look at the color you are using
to see how it makes you feel. If it is a pale or muddy, or putrid
rendition of a color, be sure it is not affecting you that way.
My desk
is an "L" shape. How do I feng shui it?
I would concentrate
on the main part of the desk you face first. Usually, where you
are sitting is the career area of the desk. If you have a return
that runs along one side of you while at your desk, you can either
leave it "outside the bagua," or bring it in by adding a mirror
of top of your main desk facing the return portion.
I'm going
to build a new home. What's the best location for bathrooms?
I usually
suggest placing them somewhere on the line between guas, so they
are not totally in one gua or the other. I would also think about
any areas of your life that are weak and try to avoid placing them
in the gua that is associated with that life situation. And overall,
I usually don't suggest them to be in the family gua or in the center
of the home.
And as long
as you don't have the toilets in yet, I would spray paint red around
the stub outs for the toilets and sinks with the intention that
your good ch'i not go down the drains. So, when they are mounted,
your enhancement is already there!
I don'
t like pink. Is there some other color I could use?
In guas where
there is one of the five elements associated with it, you could
use the color that "creates" that element (see "elements" in this
site.) If not, you could stay in the family of the color you need..
For instance, you could use both red and white where pink should
be. Also, don't forget, you can hide the color if it doesn't fit
your decorating style. Place some pink in the back of a closet or
under the furniture!
I did my
enhancements six weeks ago and I don't see any changes yet. And
when I do see the changes, how long will they last?
I usually give
people three months to see massive changes, although in some cases,
they come while I'm doing consultations. If you feel like you've
done it all and nothing has changes yet I would suggest doing one
of these:
1) I would
add something to the skills and knowledge gua and ask to be shown
any additional things that could be done (sometimes the obvious
things are right under your nose) and be aware of the "signs" when
they are revealed.
2) I would
write down what's going on in life right now, so you have something
to compare it with later. Sometimes, things change rather seemless,
and some people expect to be hit with a bolt of lightening.
I did the
physical stuff. Can you give me more on the intention stuff so I
can add it to my enhancements?
Yes. Here
is a great process to use. Let's say you want prosperity. (You can
use anything here - and the more specific, the better.) Now, say
out loud, "It is possible for me to be prosperous." When you do
this, listen for what your inner voice is saying to you at this
point. Does it say, "Yea, right...I'll never be prosperous." or
"Yes it IS possible darn it!" You have to get you inner voice in
shape if it is not speaking the truth about what you want. (More
on this in a bit)
Next, say to
yourself , "I am capable of being prosperous." and do the same thing
with the inner voice. And finally say, "I deserve to be prosperous."
with the same inner check.
If you can't
shake those negative inner thoughts try this. Get three friends
together, and get them to stand around you. Each one of them is
in charge of saying one of the above affirmations. One says "It
is possible for you to be prosperous," one says "You are capable
of being prosperous." and the last one says "You deserve to be prosperous."
Have all three of them touch you at the same time and repeat their
sentences over and over for a while until they fee like stopping.
They usually "feel" that they are "done." You will see results with
this I assure you.
And if you
don't have three friends, simply say to yourself over and over,
"Prosperity and I are one." until you actually believe it. In reality,
everything is one, so you and prosperity are one, you just don't
perceive it that way. What you normally perceive in this world is
really the illusion. Good luck!
How do
I overlay the bagua onto an "L-shaped" house?
It depends
on which way the "L" swings. If there is a portion of the home poking
out in front of the plane of the front door, then that part is not
counted as part of the bagua and you have to bring it in (see book
for how to do that). If the L is created by having a piece of the
rear house extend out beyond the rest of the rear of the house,
then you either have an enhancement or missing pieces back there.
How you figure that out is, if the width of the extention across
the back is less than half of the width of the whold rear of the
house, it is an "addition to that gua." If the portion that pokes
out is more than half the distance of the whole rear of the house,
then the part where the extention is not, is a missing piece. Boy,
this is hard to describe without pictures! I hope it makes sense!
What area of the home corresponds to depression.
My husband has been going through a bout of it and I feel as if I'm headed in that direction. Is there
a specific area to concentrate on or would a general type of feng shui cure be helpful. I read your
recent newsletter and thinking about what you said, I often feel that I feel drained in the house and
sure enough a couple of my drains are slow-moving and slightly clogged. I also sometimes feel a
heaviness in the house like the house is weighing down on me and have had trouble pinpointing what to
work on there.
I would work on Family, Health/Center and
Creativity/Children. Intend that the family area heal anything in the past that may be causing this.
Intend for the health area that you find the perfectness of the now. Intend that the creativity and
children bring your fun, lightness and happiness in all you see and do. I might also look into any
parts of the physical home that mimic the words you choose to describe your situation. If you say the
house is weighing down on you, look to see if there is any places in the home or around the home that
is literally doing that...like with low ceilings or perhaps a very heavy textured ceiling. Look
into getting more space between the top of your head and other items like the ceiling and beams and
bunk beds on top of you or overhead lights that hang down too low.
Is the bagua chart applicable to each room or
just to the entire house?
It is applicable to each room, to each plot of
land, and to each piece of furniture. It is also applicable to yourself if you choose...these methods
can be applied to anything with physical boundaries.
When building the house in housing subdivision
you don't have a lot of choices on where to put the fire place - there is a choice either in family gua
or in prosperity gua in the great room . What is better to decide on?
I think I would choose the prosperity gua...and be
very mindful of balancing it out with plenty of enhancements, and a lot of water element - and of course
plenty of intention!
I don't understand how the color red is
supposed to be placed in some areas to stop chi from escaping (such as around the trash can), but be
placed in other areas (such as prosperity or relationship) to help "fire" up the energy. How does the
color red serve as a STOP in some places and a GO in others?
With your intention, of course! Red has the
vibrational capability of doing both, and it is up to you to suggest which one you want it to actually
do. If that is not a good enough answer, let’s say "It just does." :)
I have your book and am applying it to my home
but I have a front balcony and back balcony so do I include these in the areas they fall or can I make
them their own separate areas?
If they do not have a roof or enclosure on them
they are probably not in and I would treat them individually, especially if they poke out beyond the
home in front of the front door.
My house is an open plan because it is a
wheelchair house. My rooms do not have doors and only a curtain on the bathroom. The rooms all have
more than one entrance and usually my husband will use the one most convenient for him and I use
another. Do I double the baguas in the room or which doorway do I use?
Use the doorway that either seems to be the
"formal" doorway, or if you can figure out which one a guest might use if they just came into your home
through the architecturally intended front door use that one. If all else fails, choose one and give it
all the intention you’ve got!
In your book, on page 152, you suggest 2 great
ways to gather the ch'i to start. One of them is accumulating change for 30 days and then giving 10% of
it to charity. Since I'm trying to translate the book for myself to Hebrew, I have difficulty to
understand the term "change" - Is it only coins or coins and bills? I have started to do this a few
days ago and 'till now I'm putting in the bowl all my change including bills - now if your answer is
that "change" is just coins, should I take the bills out or keep them in? I know these questions may
appear to be a little bit petty, but I would like if you all the same answer them seriously.
I meant only coin change for this ritual.
Although, if the intention is there, I think it matters little which way you choose. I would choose
whatever way you feel is most empowering to you. And again, with intention in tact, if you change mid
stream, I think it matters little. I kind of like the bills being added...seems to give it more
importance and a bit more umph!
Maybe this has come up before, but maybe not.
I have the cremation remains of my late spouse. I feel the past needs to be treated with respect, but
do not want it to overshadow the present. Have you written on this? I would like to find the answer. It
is important to me and maybe others as well.
It is amazing how many times this subject has
come up with both pets and human cremation remains. It is usually a very touchy and very personal
subject when I have to discuss the topic. But, from a feng shui standpoint, I believe that it is better
that the remains be spread somewhere outside of the home. Now, that advice usually comes with a long
conversation, so if it sounds harsh, then perhaps the timing is not quite right and you are not ready
to let go. But someday there will be a time when it feels necessary or acceptable. The memories of the
person or pet are not held in the box, they are held in your heart and soul so letting the ashes go
will not lessen the impact of the experiences you had.
Some people say they don't want to know what I
think about having cremation remains in the house when they read my book and find out my feelings about
dead flowers. So, I say to them, to be gentle with themselves and know that perhaps it is not time yet
for them to let go for some reason. But letting go of the physical remains can feel great too! You can
write a special ritual and perform it to pay respects in your own special way. You can either choose
something that is akin to your religious beliefs or you can pay homage to the cycle of life - knowing
that creation and destruction are one and there is no end to either.
I hope my little discussion here has made this
potentially "bad" sounding news easier to hear. Please let me know if you have objections to this so we
can feel complete with our conversation.
HELP, I have a gun safe in my family gua! I
really can't move it, so what can I do for a cure? I'm afraid this is the cause for my currently rocky
relationship.
I would add fire and water element to the area.
and also I would especially enhance the family gua of every other room. Another thing to do might be to
run red tape around the cabinet with the intention that the gun energy be confined to the cabinet only
and not in your home. Or finally I would get rid of the guns and review what the motivating factor was
in having them at all.......
What does it mean when your relationship corner
catches on fire? My mother was burning her candle and it caught everything in the corner on fire. She
has burned the same candle numerous times.
Since fire "creates earth" in the creative cycle,
and the relationship area of the home is an earth element area (not in my book but true non the less!)
I would think that the relationship energy propelled itself forward, but with it a full cycle type of
condition took place. Perhaps there was (is) a need to extinguish old ideas about loved ones or an "old"
(meaning past its term of use) particular relationship and prepare the space in her life AND now home
(home mirrors self) for a fresh new energy that she has intended to attract.
I would use A LOT of intention regarding being in
perfect relationships while cleaning up that corner, and I would bet an unexpected or "out of the blue"
relationship may show up soon thereafter.
I merely intended that fire be ignited in a fame
and reputation area of a company to increase their visibility in the marketplace and that night the
fire alarm went off and the fire men came and broke down the door only to find nothing. Oh, there was
fire there, but none that they saw! Your mother may indeed have such strong intentions whether she is
aware or not!
Do some objects like ornamental knives, daggers,
etc. actually create negative energy between a couple when presented with such things? I gifted my
husband with a dagger 1 ½ yrs ago and we have been fighting all the time. So much so that we are actually
separating now. Do u think the dagger had something to do with it or we are just not right for each
other? The dagger is kept in our bedroom on a desk close to our bed.
I would definitely remover the dagger or any other
weapon from the bedroom or anywhere in the house at least for a while to see if things can turn around.
That is too powerful of a symbol of violence and mistrust and defensiveness not to be affecting you on
some level.
How do you treat stairs in the family section?
Is there a way to balance the "up and down" effects that the stairs symbolically have in the family
aspects of life?
Keep pictures hanging level and not stair-stepped
like the stairs and possible hang a crystal above the stairs in the center of the case. I'd also enhance
the family gua of every room in the home to further enhance this gua in life.
My three-year old daughter does not like her new
bed. It's the bottom of a bunk bed. Their room is in the creativity section of my apt in the helpful
people part of their room. The room is very small...bunk beds are a MUST! I recently separated from my
husband and I have them half the week every week. Any suggestions?
In theory, you should place a mirror face up just
below the top bunk (so if she is in bed facing up she sees the back of a mirror.) But mirrors break and
such, so I would suggest possibly draping material with stars and moons and "up stuff" like that
billowing down a bit from the bottom of the top bunk. The material also serves as a way to "erase" the
"beams" created overhead by the slats of the upper bunk.
Could the bathroom door be a problem in line
with the bed or does only the main door to a room count? If it could be a problem, would you use the
same cures as for the main door?
Yes, it counts, and yes, cure it the same as the
other door.
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